What I means is, you can talk shit about your momma, but I can’t..i.e you can say:

“ugh, my mom is such a bitch”

but as soon as i chime in with a

“yea and a hoe too.. who’s your dad again?”

you’re ready to fight.

Its that simple, its family (aka in group), you can say what you want about your family, but no one else knows them that way to say shit.

This is about what is “fair”. “Fair” connotes equality and justice and if you’re insinuating that your are some how being treated unequally or unjusticely because you can’t use a word that is used as a tool of oppression by your fam (group), then you need to get over it, cause I’m outta Kleenex for your privileged tears. You are not owed the right of access to this family or its language, so its about as unfair as it is for me to not be able to talk about your frumpy momma.

Now I’m not commenting on the debate about should ‘anyone’ say any of those words, most cause that is an in-house, in group debate, with family. So unless i see you at the reunion, keep the change; please don’t give me your two cents and don’t talk shit about my momma….js